Interdependence
Day
Independence Day commemorates the signing of
the Declaration of Independence by the Continental Congress on July
4, 1776, in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania. Americans have gone from carriage
rides to space walks but that declaration remains one of the bravest,
boldest statements ever made. Independence is our national heritage,
our personal doctrine, our private pride. It is our bright and shining
armor against conformity and compliance. It is the legacy that has
made self reliance our native virtue.
Independence is the American way and may it flourish forever. But,
there was another part to that declaration embraced by the signers,
the part where they acknowledged that not one of them stood alone.
“We mutually pledge to each other our Lives, our Fortunes, and
our sacred Honor.”
It has been over 225 years since we declared our Independence from
England. Today, the British people are our strongest allies, our best
friend internationally, our staunchest supporter in the worldwide
struggle against tyranny. They are the ones who have mutually pledged
their lives, fortunes and honor with ours.
Even the very best of us don’t do it alone.
That is something women need to remember, on dark days and during
long, fretful nights filled with fear and worry. Be brave. Be bold.
Be independent. But, there are friends and champions, defenders and
supporters that can ease the burden. If no man is an island, certainly
no woman should be, either. For every woman trying her best to achieve
a dream – or even a nap - there is a network of advocacy and
knowledge to help her get there.
Independence doesn’t mean isolation and accepting help doesn’t
translate to dependence. Every one needs backup. We all walk the tightrope
in some way, balancing work, family, debt, guilt, hope and happiness.
We all need a net to catch us when we fall. We only lose if we let
discouragement lead to despair. There are many people ready, willing
and wanting to help in some way.
We should let them.
If the first person can’t help, ask someone else. There are
organizations with resources, individuals with experience, people
with ideas and friends just waiting to be made.
Networking might have been trendy in the 80’s, but for women
of this century, it ought to be a way of life. By taking care of each
other, we build on the strengths of other women who have struggled
and succeeded. By helping each other, we even the odds against us.
By reaching out, we gain support to walk on our own two feet.
Think of all the musicians, designers, tailors, dancers, drivers,
stagehands, organizers, operators, agents, electricians, lawyers,
promoters, and scores of others it takes to present Cher’s one-woman
show. Independence shines most brightly when everyone shines a little
light on the subject. Grab a sparkler – and a helping hand.
Happy Independence Day!
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